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Post by king on May 24, 2010 2:51:12 GMT -5
how old are you?
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Post by vanilo on May 24, 2010 3:07:04 GMT -5
Would you rather have a girl who has been with one or two guys at her most and has barely even learned to how do it? Or some girl who knows what she is doing? Do you want a fun girl who will make you live or do you want some sort of trophy? Who says these are the only two options with women that you have? . I think this is a very narrowminded way of thinking...very black/white . I don't understand this society, where you basically send out a message to people that they, per automatic, are rubbish in bed until they've had sex with a lot of different people. How many partners does it take for you to be "good"? How many times would you need to have sex before you're "good"? I don't think it's experience that determine how good you are as a sexual partner - you can be doing the same thing in bed 20 times with 20 different people, what would that have taught you? How is that making you better in bed? You're just repeating yourself, really...boring. I think it's how comfortable you are with your own body, and your partner's body, that determine how good you are. And how openminded you are...how willing you are, to try new things. I think the best way to feel this comfortable is when you are with someone you know, trust and love...
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Post by vanilo on May 24, 2010 3:07:21 GMT -5
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Post by king on May 24, 2010 3:08:51 GMT -5
cool...you are young... are you beautiful?
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Post by vanilo on May 24, 2010 3:19:10 GMT -5
HAHA! Hmmm, I don't know, I don't feel comfortable saying I'm beautiful. I think it's because I don't want to be one of those girls who "brag" about their looks while everyone else is really thinking, "damn, you look like a dog, get over yourself". I can only say that I'm completely comfortable with the way I look . I don't have any insecurities about myself...
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Post by rex362 on May 24, 2010 10:17:44 GMT -5
if there are any woman out there that are liberated sexually (they like to fuk all day/night) call me ..we make some cash while you at it .
why not -that cell phone gotta be paid somehow
1-800-Rex-Pimp ... leave message
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on May 24, 2010 11:19:03 GMT -5
I am fairly comfortable with myself and my past relationships. As Vanilo pointed out It doesn't mean that I have had sex with every single ones of my boyfriends, I would have to have pretty low standards if It was so easy to get me into bed. I reserved full physical contact for serious long term relationships, with the others I did kiss them and a lil bit more, if that makes me a Ho in your eyes, thats fine, because .. who are you to judge me?! lol I had bf's from the age of 5 up until I got married aged 30 , in 25 years if Im not going to have sex, what is the point of living exactly? I am really satisfied with my life pre and post marraige. I agree with Melty on the experience situation, I mean I wouldn't want a man that lacked experience, and my husband always says he is happy he has a girl like me in bed! So I guess for me it worked out well... for others circumstances can change, I know a few girls who were similar to Vanilo they wouldn't let any of their bf touch them, yet turns out they are extreme in bed?!?!?!?! As for King, you want to marry a women to cook and look after you? so basically you want to marry your mum? Rexy rexy rexy.... NO
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Post by king on May 24, 2010 11:23:35 GMT -5
I am fairly comfortable with myself and my past relationships. As Vanilo pointed out It doesn't mean that I have had sex with every single ones of my boyfriends, I would have to have pretty low standards if It was so easy to get me into bed. I reserved full physical contact for serious long term relationships, with the others I did kiss them and a lil bit more, if that makes me a Ho in your eyes, thats fine, because .. who are you to judge me?! lol I had bf's from the age of 5 up until I got married aged 30 , in 25 years if Im not going to have sex, what is the point of living exactly? I am really satisfied with my life pre and post marraige. I agree with Melty on the experience situation, I mean I wouldn't want a man that lacked experience, and my husband always says he is happy he has a girl like me in bed! So I guess for me it worked out well... for others circumstances can change, I know a few girls who were similar to Vanilo they wouldn't let any of their bf touch them, yet turns out they are extreme in bed?!?!?!?! As for King, you want to marry a women to cook and look after you? so basically you want to marry your mum?
Rexy rexy rexy.... NO No i dont want to marry my mum... sex is not everything in a relationship, sex is only good for having children... i like kissing and cuddling but i dont like sex.... i would like to have children so i guess i have to go through it sometimes
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Post by rex362 on May 24, 2010 11:23:56 GMT -5
my 1-800-Rex-Pimp
also goes for guys with nice skin as well /Canaris pays for that
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on May 24, 2010 11:32:39 GMT -5
King, I don't know what to say, have you ever considered becoming a monk?
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Post by king on May 24, 2010 11:34:51 GMT -5
King, I don't know what to say, have you ever considered becoming a monk? the problem is I DO LIKE to touch and kiss a girl and cuddle with her, i need alots of love (im a very child like guy) but i dont like sex... i had only once when i was 22 and it was like work for me... i didnt enjoyed it at all
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on May 24, 2010 11:39:38 GMT -5
I see, well I don't think you should base your view on sex by ONE experience that you had. If you didn't enjoy it, it means you were doing it with the wrong person. I mean have you ever considered other options? maybe your not into girls, or maybe you need to be in love first and that kinda thing.
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Post by SKORIC on May 24, 2010 11:43:50 GMT -5
Actually sex and sexual attraction is the most important thing in a relationship. No sex no happy healthy relationship. King hasnt had alot of experience and is obviously insecure about it so thats why he's downplaying it as not important and something he doesnt like.
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on May 24, 2010 11:59:20 GMT -5
I agree
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Post by vanilo on May 24, 2010 12:02:47 GMT -5
Reality is that there are many people out there who're not very big on sex. Could be a hormonal thing, could be a mere personal thing. But to these people sex is just the means for a goal (having kids), while it's more important to them to have a companionship/friendship. Some people cope fine with a not-so-sexual relationship, others definitely do not.
Personally, I want the whooole package. I can't pick one element out to be more important than the other. I want 100% of everything!
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on May 24, 2010 12:05:21 GMT -5
I think sex is about 5% importance in my marraige, but if that 5% doesn't exist = divorce.
The more important elements are Trust , Respect, Fun, Mutual Interests,
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Post by SKORIC on May 24, 2010 12:33:13 GMT -5
Trust, Respect, Fun, Mutual Interests for the long term yes, but would that even be reached if there wasnt initial sexual attraction?
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Post by vanilo on May 24, 2010 13:01:56 GMT -5
Trust, Respect, Fun, Mutual Interests for the long term yes, but would that even be reached if there wasnt initial sexual attraction? Probably not, for most people...
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Post by king on May 24, 2010 13:11:10 GMT -5
I see, well I don't think you should base your view on sex by ONE experience that you had. If you didn't enjoy it, it means you were doing it with the wrong person. I mean have you ever considered other options? maybe your not into girls, or maybe you need to be in love first and that kinda thing. im definitely into girls... maybe i need a another experience...but sex is really not so important for me i live without for years and im happy
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on May 24, 2010 13:25:36 GMT -5
Yea but sexual attraction is changable, or at least it was for me. Someone that I considered well hot a few years ago, today I think ergh what a dog. So no I wouldnt always base it on sexual attraction initially. Another point is that theres a saying in Turkey, ten uyumu, which means skin harmony, everything can change once you touch someone, the chemicals in your skin blend. You could be dating the hottest guy in town go to kiss him and feel repulsed. although there was the initial sexual attraction.,, anyway I dont know where im going with this so il stop.
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