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Post by meltdown711 on Feb 12, 2009 9:06:35 GMT -5
Last night, as I was trying to fall asleep, I said to myself: horniness is fukin destroying me.
Here is a reason why:
I was up at 730am-->to workout-->have a good body--> impress girls
I shower--> to smell/look nice--> to get attention of girls
I eat healthy --> stay in shape --> look good for girls.
I act fake around certain situations so as to match the character treats which a certain girl I may like prefers, talking about things which I have no interest in whatsoever... yet I do it, because I want that...girl...not her mind
I waste every Fri and Sat at s**tty bar-clubs, doing something I despise: dancing, in order to get girls.
I end up feeling bad about masturbation... because of sex...
I cant pay attention to discussions because I notice opposite to me is a girl with amazing breasts... I just imagine throwing myself at her.
Everything in my life is fixed on it and I have no control over myself... fuk it, if it was up to me I would stay home with junkfood and not showering for a week straight will doing nothing but waste time... but nope, I cant do that... because I want sex.
And whats more, even with all this preparation, it doesnt happen all that often... and many times once a girl wont go above makeout without some binding issues: which relate to the abominable relationship... and spending time with her... but that even when it actually happens...
So all that care, for something that will not likely fall through in the first place...
Am I alone here?
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Post by rusebg on Feb 12, 2009 9:26:39 GMT -5
As far as I understand you, you want sex without relationship. Why then you just don't call a call girl and fix your problems?
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Post by danceswithpoodles on Feb 12, 2009 9:30:45 GMT -5
lol milk just ran through my nose. I shouldn't touch this.
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Post by rex362 on Feb 12, 2009 10:26:31 GMT -5
Call Highduke , he give you hand job
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Post by Kanaris on Feb 12, 2009 11:18:22 GMT -5
You are as normal as the other 80% of guys who think the same thing.... be thankful you don't get as excited when you see some dude bending over... ;D
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Post by meltdown711 on Feb 12, 2009 11:55:00 GMT -5
Ruse, thats not the issue... the issue is that Im so preoccupied with sex that Im being hampered for other things I want to do in life... ita pathetically sad but its ALL I can think about.... fuking... its always there at the tip of my mind. As I am writing this at the moment, Im at a library pod center at my school... trying to do a latin translation yet every second my attention is pulled away because of a sight...
Its pathetically sad. Imagine if I didnt have these distractions. Imagine all I could ACTUALLY do!!!
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Post by rex362 on Feb 12, 2009 12:03:43 GMT -5
trying to do a latin translation yet every second my attention is pulled away because of a sight...
E Tu Cunnilingus.....  btw...Highduke Fellat
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Post by Kanaris on Feb 12, 2009 12:11:24 GMT -5
You need a steady girlfriend..... believe me..my kid had those problems and ever since he hooked up with this Italian chick.... he has become a better student..  |
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Post by rex362 on Feb 12, 2009 12:14:34 GMT -5
Better student ?
Italian chick must be doing his homework ?
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I was straight A's til 10th grade...
first girly and I barley made it out ...
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Post by Kanaris on Feb 12, 2009 12:16:25 GMT -5
Well part of his homework must have been milking the lizard..so now she lends a hand. ;D
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Post by rex362 on Feb 12, 2009 12:17:31 GMT -5
usually that goes up and grades go down
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Post by Alb_Korcar on Feb 12, 2009 12:53:50 GMT -5
rofl. "Et tu Cunnilingus" +1 Rex
y so distracted? are there a lot of Turks in ur school?
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Post by Kastorianos on Feb 12, 2009 13:39:27 GMT -5
Thats nature...without horniness you wouldnt be here and I and everyone else either. Nature has to make us like that in order to make our species living on. What you feel is absolutely intended by nature.
As for studies and such things...(unfortunately) nature did not consider this aspect. We are "designed" for becoming fathers and not for making (additionally) career. Thats all about it. ;D
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Post by epiroti on Feb 12, 2009 14:14:10 GMT -5
Hilarious post, yet so true...
I was thinking about this yesterday, but from a slightly different angle. As a species, we have the intelligence/potential to manipulate nature - science - to amaizing extents. We have outrivalled all other species long time ago, we've figured out mathematics, physics, chemistry, etc etc. We have created nuclear weapons and jets that fly faster than sound. We've been to the moon, we are sending spaceships to mars for fvck sake.
Yet our attention, and often our moods - which means pretty much the whole mind's way of prioritising - gets controlled by a code who's only interest is how to create the new you. Man, we really pay a hell of a price for the favour done to us by nature - being born.
But the worse is the way that the mind deals with the issue. Boobs and @ss will hypnotise men, like the damn things were some sort of God, and not just some muscle tissues and such. Retarded behaviour - we'll be stunned by the view like we got smacked in the face unexpectadly, and become the pray of virus-like emotions, instead of taking the same path as we do with other challenges: analyse, plan, implement, analyse again, ...
To a large extent, we're a paradox as a species. But I'd rather come to terms with this nature, than believe in a holly book and a phantasy world...
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Post by insomniac on Feb 12, 2009 14:29:21 GMT -5
As a species we like pleasure.
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Post by epiroti on Feb 12, 2009 14:34:43 GMT -5
Is not pleasure and/or pain that are the problem. Is their associations, the way they are prioritised, and some of their control mechanisms. Very primitive compared to other abilities that we display.
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Post by Kastorianos on Feb 12, 2009 14:43:55 GMT -5
primitive but strong...it shows more than everything else today where we come from...and its despite all the other nice things we (can) have today (at least in the western world) totally unrivaled. Every normal human, if rich or poor, wants to have sex...everywhere...and as much as possible. ;D
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Post by epiroti on Feb 12, 2009 14:55:33 GMT -5
STRONG is no doubt possible, but that (attitude) doesn't come insinctivly. It comes with education, and practice/training. Instictivly, as a species, we avoid what we percieve as risk, rather than the equivalent calculated and daring initiative.
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Post by donnie on Feb 12, 2009 17:20:40 GMT -5
What you described Meltdown is probably the same for every guy during atleast some period of their lives. But what you wrote has a positive aspect.
You say you'd rather skip working out and jut stay home, eating junkfood and slacking infront of the TV. Well, being horny and wanting girls has made you workout, and that will have positive consequences ... it will give you a healthy body, which in turn will boost your confidence. And this will probably give you more girls .. and the end result is a healthier lifestyle which will prolong your life.
The same got me into training. In my early and mid-teens I was overweight. Wanting girls resulted in a decision -- I started to work out, burning fat and replacing it with muscles. The result is a better lifestyle.
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Post by Kastorianos on Feb 12, 2009 17:38:58 GMT -5
at least till the marriage. ;D
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