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Post by diurpaneus on Dec 12, 2007 12:36:34 GMT -5
;D
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Post by humbleman on Dec 12, 2007 13:31:38 GMT -5
Well first of all, I would like to apologise for losing my temper (especially at you Anittas). I believe this is the first time I lost it, and I do feel ashamed. I acted without thinking things through properly. After reading your last message on Sunday I said to myself: "Oh nuts, I couldn't have said this to you about Ruse, because when we last spoke I did not know this information, hence it was impossible". Yes, you were very cunning, and that is probably the best self-revealement I have seen anywhere on any forum. It is so good that everyone believes that you did not know that stuff. Ruse certainly believes that I told you! You are probably quite proud, because not even you expected to get so much. It is a shame it did so much damage. As for the trip that we were meant to take together: well that is clearly not going to happen now. (I will still go.) As the conditions of the tickets were non-exchangeable and non-refundable, I am £71 (about 99Euro) out of pocket, and Ruse said he will pay me back after New Year, but I am not holding my breath. But even if he doesn't pay me back: he would still have lost a lot because he went to book a flight, and booking flights for New Year at this short notice, the prices are extortionate! I don't see how the decision that he made was a good one in any case, even if I was guilty of "betraying his secrets." What a shame.
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Post by jerryspringer on Dec 12, 2007 14:43:35 GMT -5
If Ruse still believes that you told me that stuff after reading my message, then he has serious issues. On a positive note, two guys who put so little trust in each other should probably not take such a long trip together. I may have saved you some problems that could have got really nasty. If a friendship cannot pass such a small test, then it will be better off. The last time I spoke to you about Ruse was when I asked you if he ever mentioned me. That was months ago and you acknowledged that you you two spoke about me, but you refused to elaborate. Still, in a message to him I told him that the things he said about me to you (again, manipulating him into thinking that you told me stuff) was not nice. The dude bought my words without any argument and got all defensive. Here is the thread where I joked about Ruse's wife kicking him out of the house: p082.ezboard.com/fbalkansfrm150.showMessage?topicID=140.topicNotice how old the thread is. As I said, Aadmin came to Ruse's rescue and I never got a chance to really go to the bottom of it all, but if I had to guess, Ruse probably had some drinking problems and upset his wife. Yeah, Ruse, Vaisva told me everything. How else could I know this? You only told this to Vaisva, right? As for the 100 euros, I thought it was more. If I want to travel to Ro by train, I'd have to pay some 350 euros for a round trip. You could try to hook with someone else and go with them. You could even try a club, approach some chick and tell her about this wacko and how he ruined your plans (I'm innocent), and offer her the ticket. One-hundred euro is not the end of the world and I suggest you refuse Ruse's money. His betrayal goes deeper than that. Only if he apologizes--and he should--could you give it a second thought.
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Post by diurpaneus on Dec 12, 2007 15:47:30 GMT -5
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Post by diurpaneus on Dec 13, 2007 8:33:46 GMT -5
You could try to hook with someone else and go with them. You could even try a club, approach some chick and tell her about this wacko and how he ruined your plans (I'm innocent), and offer her the ticket. Yeah. A good ideea. Try to pick up a depraved pakistani woman from a pub and offer her the ticket to Romania. She would perfectly fit umong the natives of Bucharest both mentally and physically. PS: This post is dedicated to Anittas and does not express my opinions about Bucharesteans or their single neck.
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Post by jerryspringer on Dec 13, 2007 9:42:51 GMT -5
Diur, there's still some hope for you. Now continue on this path and after a couple of years you'll start to believe what you say.
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Post by humbleman on Dec 13, 2007 13:33:29 GMT -5
One-hundred euro is not the end of the world and I suggest you refuse Ruse's money. His betrayal goes deeper than that. Only if he apologizes--and he should--could you give it a second thought. Well I would rather be insulted and even "abused" in a forum than lose 99 Euros through no fault of my own. So don't lecture me on this please. But still, I don't understand how turning down a cheap ticket and seeing most of Europe by train (he did want to see European cities) and quickly buying a plane ticket is a good decision under any circumstances. But it gets worse for him: my line manager at work has asked me to write an article of this journey for the internal company news paper. Hhhmmm, what do you think I should say?
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Post by jerryspringer on Dec 13, 2007 13:44:45 GMT -5
You idiot, it's not about being abused or insulted online. He wouldn't do that to you because you're not even worth that much. This is about an event in your real life. To explain certain things to you is like attempting to reason with a 2-year old.
One hundred euro is not a big deal.
Ruse would rather pay ten times as much, just to not take the same train as you. That should tell you how much he despises you; and still, you worry more about the 100 euro rather than the way he perceives you: as a traitor and a scum. You got mad, not because you lost a buddy and his trust, but because of 100 euro. I didn't think you were that cheap. I wonder what you would do for 100 euro. 'Eww, ugly thoughts, begone!'
You may not have betrayed him here, but this still fits your character. Not only that, but what was he thinking when he decided to share a journey with one who would not put his life at risk for his love one?
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Post by humbleman on Dec 13, 2007 14:10:44 GMT -5
What has got into you? All I said: is don't lecture me until you have lost 99 Euros. Yes I do feel a little betrayed, but if someone loses his trust in me and acts on emotion rather than properly discussing things, then yeah I just get a little weary of them. Yes, I have lost sleep the first night this happened, but I'm over it now. You have to use reason rather than get all emotional about it. I certainly wouldn't go gambling on football results for it.
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Post by jerryspringer on Dec 13, 2007 14:13:47 GMT -5
I have lost thousands of euros.
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Post by humbleman on Dec 13, 2007 14:15:52 GMT -5
But that was your fault because you gambled! It is different.
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Kanaris
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Post by Kanaris on Dec 13, 2007 15:42:22 GMT -5
Any of you guys have actually met one another?
Stephan...... what are you up to now?
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Post by rusebg on Dec 13, 2007 16:27:05 GMT -5
Enough. Closed.
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