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Post by rusebg on Mar 16, 2011 15:44:44 GMT -5
You want to appear level-headed or you want to be yourself?
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Post by Emperor AAdmin on Mar 16, 2011 15:50:46 GMT -5
I NEED to be healthy Ruse and not stressed, that is what I NEED so level-headed is what I NEED to be. WANTS are for impulsive kids and associated with emotions or desires.
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Post by rusebg on Mar 16, 2011 15:52:57 GMT -5
Who told you that emotions always lead to stress and unhealthy physical condition?!
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Post by terroreign on Mar 16, 2011 15:55:36 GMT -5
Emotions are good for artists, directors, actors, writers, dancers
Not so good for businessmen, lawyers, doctors
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Post by Emperor AAdmin on Mar 16, 2011 15:57:21 GMT -5
Heightened emotions lead to excitement (plus inability to make sound judgement) and that leads to stress. How does one get a stroke, nervous breakdown, heart attack etc etc. Certainly not by being relaxed (which basically means mainly logical). Go to bellow link and click there and then click ctrl and F and type emotion and see how many times it pops up there. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stress_(biology)
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Post by rusebg on Mar 16, 2011 16:05:24 GMT -5
Admin, why do you always refer to negative emotions? There are tons of positive ones, man, do you really deprive yourself of being emotional in jolly moments? Hell, if you are with a beautiful woman, what the fvck is leading you in such a moment? Logic?!
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Post by Emperor AAdmin on Mar 16, 2011 16:12:57 GMT -5
I am being realistic Ruse, Montenegrins are not the happiest bunch as neither are many other Balkanians (especially Greeks, Albanians) so I think it is something in freaken genetics. You can be happy but then you are being impulsive and then something negative happens and how long before you are pissed off. Negative emotions seem stronger then positive ones. Kind of like saying it takes time to build a glass but a second to destroy it.
When with the girl of course it was not logic that got you there but there better be some logic cause you can still end up on a road that you did not want to be to begin with.
Being purely impulsive will almost surely at the end backfire.
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Post by rusebg on Mar 16, 2011 16:14:50 GMT -5
Like a moment of carelessness and then a father for the rest of your life? ;D
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Post by Emperor AAdmin on Mar 16, 2011 16:17:21 GMT -5
Aha or a far more F up scenario such as what if the girl is F nuts (doest appear at the start) or infected with something or infected and also nuts (that is for those who get really lucky ). But the man didn't notice anything cause he was guided by 'happy emotions' (or in reality with the other head).
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Post by Emperor AAdmin on Mar 16, 2011 16:23:07 GMT -5
I say, be level headed, assume the worst and then be pleasantly surprised when you turn out to be wrong and be thankful for being wrong.
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Post by Emperor AAdmin on Mar 16, 2011 16:26:30 GMT -5
Facing something like this on the other side of the table might be hard for a guy to be fully level headed but perhaps with some breathing exercises, who knows. lol Plus girls see that as confident so they don't complain (throw a compliment here and there), believe me my friend.
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Post by rusebg on Mar 16, 2011 16:40:17 GMT -5
You are not very optimistic person, Admin, are you? Or you are on the princiople that the pesimist is actually well-ingormed optimist?
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Post by Emperor AAdmin on Mar 16, 2011 16:43:53 GMT -5
Optimistic, pessimistic - just emotional labels.
You have a task and if you do it mechanically (kind of like a salesman) you will accomplish it. Just need to choose correct opportunity from one that is waste of time. That takes experience.
Simple.
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Post by rusebg on Mar 16, 2011 16:49:36 GMT -5
You are plain wrong on this one. I have worked quite a lot as a sales representative and if you do this job mechanically, you are fvcked. You ain't gonna sell anything. You work with people, man. You can not sit there like some sort of a talking machine trying to convince them to buy what you sell without emotion.
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Post by terroreign on Mar 16, 2011 16:51:52 GMT -5
Really depends on the job guys
"You think too much. Clever people and grocers, they weigh everything." - Zorba
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Post by Caslav Klonimirovic on Mar 16, 2011 17:46:27 GMT -5
Facing something like this on the other side of the table might be hard for a guy to be fully level headed but perhaps with some breathing exercises, who knows. lol Plus girls see that as confident so they don't complain (throw a compliment here and there), believe me my friend. Is this why you have remained celibate for such a long time? Because you are unable to remain level headed around women?
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Mar 16, 2011 18:06:38 GMT -5
Wants and Needs are business terms. You want a car, you need toilet paper. One of the most successful products on earth, comes from a need. Aadmin equates emotions with weaknesses, where as passion is a great emotion, from academics, scientists, explorers to the best businessmen Passion is what led them to their position. The best is to balance your emotion well, restricting it could lead to suppression and then depression. Also Turks are perhaps not exactly Balkans, yet they are extremely emotional, at every bloody thing, yet they are very happy too.. like literally just happy to "be" Aadmin is very subjective in his view of emotions vs logic.
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Post by uz on Mar 16, 2011 19:21:45 GMT -5
You nailed it. Desire.
How do we find motivation, if there's no true passion behind it.
Passion is indeed an emotion, and it is passion that has changed the world to what it is today, and it is passion that will make everything right. Once we allow this specific emotion to run through our bodies, and deduce the feeling to logic, we will have no other choice but to make change, and what great change it can be.
We can only be free once our emotions are balanced through logic. Not supressed or hidden, but used as tools.
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Mar 16, 2011 19:26:05 GMT -5
Right. Not only is Passion an important emotion, but also satisfaction, self worth and other emotions are of vital importance. Being logical all the time....for me the emotion of bored pops up
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Post by uz on Mar 16, 2011 19:26:58 GMT -5
There's positive and negative emotions. I don't see how people don't get that.
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