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Post by SKORIC on Jun 10, 2010 6:19:04 GMT -5
Women dont like them, they're just prone to being attracted to them. Women are attracted to confident alpha males and "jackasses" give off that impression.
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Post by Nikola on Jun 10, 2010 6:24:22 GMT -5
Just another thing also Nikola, its the most hardest to pick up women from night clubs, why?, because women have the hardest shield, they think all the men there just want a quicky (some truth to that to be honest with you). The best way to pick up serbian/montenegrin or Fyromian women is to get involved in the community like traditional dances, traditional concerts, church or even help the old folks prepare the food because the old people will advise their grand-daughters or daughters about you. Do you wonder why some butt ugly men in our communities (Serbian/Montenegrin or Fyromian) get very attractive women?, because the butt ugly guys parents knew the attractive girls parents and they hooked their children up....this is the most common form of how men and women from our communities hook up. Yeah, very true. This date was a setup from her mum and my mum, etc too. Damn I so want a Balkan girl but I can never get one, lol.
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Post by Caslav Klonimirovic on Jun 10, 2010 6:32:03 GMT -5
VANiLO you just constantly go up and up in my book. If every (or just a few more even) women thought like you this world would be a much better if not wonderful place.
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Post by Novi Pazar on Jun 10, 2010 8:14:57 GMT -5
"Yeah, very true. This date was a setup from her mum and my mum, etc too. Damn I so want a Balkan girl but I can never get one, lol." This is going to make me look like an extreme hypocrite, but this is what l figured to get a balkan slav woman after trying so hard because balkan slav women don't think l'm one of them, they think l'm some other nationality (south-west european), this approach did get me a couple of slav women, but it didn't work out at the end of the day with those women....look at me today, considering most of the women l've dated were from south-western europe or south america, l'm married to a portuguese woman....it just wasn't meant for me to have a balkan slav woman, what ever happend l always thanked God Almighty
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Post by hellboy87 on Jun 10, 2010 9:24:41 GMT -5
Yeah, very true. This date was a setup from her mum and my mum, etc too. Damn I so want a Balkan girl but I can never get one, lol. I think it's best if you srround yourself with them.Go and socialize and hangout with Balkanians....
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Post by hellboy87 on Jun 10, 2010 9:25:42 GMT -5
There is something destructive inside of every woman. You can say that about the human race
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Post by shejtani on Jun 10, 2010 10:06:46 GMT -5
"Yeah, very true. This date was a setup from her mum and my mum, etc too. Damn I so want a Balkan girl but I can never get one, lol." This is going to make me look like an extreme hypocrite, but this is what l figured to get a balkan slav woman after trying so hard because balkan slav women don't think l'm one of them, they think l'm some other nationality (south-west european), this approach did get me a couple of slav women, but it didn't work out at the end of the day with those women....look at me today, considering most of the women l've dated were from south-western europe or south america, l'm married to a portuguese woman....it just wasn't meant for me to have a balkan slav woman, what ever happend l always thanked God Almighty actually I don't really agree with you. You can get a Balkanian just like the others ... But the thing is that you must accept her like she is, and a lot of Balkanian boys excpect their future wife to make byrek, etc ... but we are in the 21 st century man. Maybe she will make sometimes, but she will work, she will get a life, she will be like every western woman, and some Balkanians men have difficulties to accept that. Times have changed! even in Balkans, women aren't like they use to be. And it's normal, and a good thing if you ask me. I have noticed that especially people of the diaspora who live very far from Balkans (America, Australia) keep a traditionl image of life, women in Balkans etc ... time to wake up !
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Post by vanilo on Jun 10, 2010 15:10:34 GMT -5
Times have changed! even in Balkans, women aren't like they use to be. And it's normal, and a good thing if you ask me. There are good and bad aspects to both the modern woman and the "oldfashioned" one. I wouldn't say one is better than the other, I'd say a balance between those two types of women is ideal. I think the modern women are too fragile and dependant on others. While they make carreers and money for themselves, have sex freely and aren't under the traditional form of male domination, they, on the other hand, can't endure much, or do much independantly.
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Post by vanilo on Jun 10, 2010 15:13:30 GMT -5
VANiLO you just constantly go up and up in my book. If every (or just a few more even) women thought like you this world would be a much better if not wonderful place. That was a very sweet thing to say, thank you, Arsenije .
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Post by thracian08 on Jun 10, 2010 16:00:58 GMT -5
I guess I was also attracted to the bad boy type in my early 20's, but after awhile, u see they're losers! I usually think it's a phase for most guys, but for some of them, it becomes a habit. And those are usually the ones that cannot settle down - ever. I ended up marrying a Turkish guy 2 years older than me. He is also an alpha male I 100% agree with Vanilo, I mean, everyone should have standards in a mate. How can some1 just sleep around with just anyone, right?
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Post by oszkarthehun on Jun 10, 2010 19:03:04 GMT -5
Those type of guys probably initially exude confidence and because they take the initiative and give the girl attention I suspect it makes it easier on the girl all she has to do at first with guys like that is just react to the things they say and do ie just laugh and smile or shake her head. Of course it depends on the girl as some girls are maybe a bit wild and want to be with someone wild also then on the other hand sometimes its a case of opposites attract, of course there can be many variables. When the guy is a true jackass unless he has other redeeming qualities that can balance it out then usually these scenarios end badly or are bad experiences for the girl, at leasst the ones I have observed. I have a Hungarian friend, his sister has been dating a non Hungarian Jackass guy for several years now. Seriously the guy is a tool,just rude and crude and basically an major Ahole I was very close once to knocking him out myself several years ago but it wasnt worth having to afterwards deal with all the security that were in the club we were in at the time. I have had a couple of friends in the past but mostly one friend who was this type of Jackass guy, he had a long term Uni girlfriend for few years she was totally in love with him, me and him backpacked all round europe he had a girl in every port so to speak one day so casually he told me when I get back Im gonna dump so and so he was completly clinical about it, soon as we got back thats exactly what he did then she comes crying to me what happened bla bla bla I wanted to tell her," look as long as Ive known him he's always been a Total A-hole and I dont know how u havn't worked that out yet" lol. Another thing just remembered I used to work with this guy years ago he was real Alpha male type very domineering and c**ky etc and its true he could attract and interest some women with this quality. It came out later that this guy had a major issue with having a small penis we found out he was saving money and investigating medical ways to enlarge his penis as of his own admission it was extremly small lol. This is something that's been perplexing me for a long time. Why do some women like c**ky a**holes? I know guys who act like total jack-asses, are crude and disrespectful yet they are still able to get beautiful women. Do you think it's because that men are expected to chase women so a guy with confidence is more appealing to them, even if he's a jerk? Is it because some women find the bad boys more exciting? Is it because these women lack a brain themselves?
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Post by logjiktek on Jun 10, 2010 19:23:23 GMT -5
Women are dumb creatures. Most women grow out of the stage though.
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Jun 11, 2010 10:24:09 GMT -5
"My husband is what most girls call a real alpha male type. He is very dominant, older than me by 6 years" Desire, you look up to him more because his 6 years older than you, you realise also that with this age difference you feel safe around him, l know desire, many women l dated in the past used to tell me they feel comfortable and SAFE around me, the domineering character of him makes you feel he'll protect you It's not so much about protection, or feeling safe, although it is a nice bonus if he can protect you (if you're the type that needs protection). I lived alone for like 6 years almost, before I got married. I don't need a man to feel safe. I like a man that can stand his ground and not give in to my every desire. Someone that isn't going to be a doormat. I respect that about my man. Whereas many new age guys, just give into their gf/wife and to be honest the girls end up looking for excitement elsewhere because, it just gets too boring.
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Post by Caslav Klonimirovic on Jun 11, 2010 11:58:26 GMT -5
I like a man that can stand his ground and not give in to my every desire. Someone that isn't going to be a doormat. I respect that about my man. Whereas many new age guys, just give into their gf/wife and to be honest the girls end up looking for excitement elsewhere because, it just gets too boring. I notice this scenario a lot. In Serbia there is a word for these guys similar to doormat - papucar. It's similar to the word for slippers (papuce) metaphorically referring to the way he is being walked over. It's a tough one. I'll admit to agreeing with girlfriends in the past just to avoid an argument. It's not good.
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Jun 11, 2010 15:01:02 GMT -5
Pabuch is what slippers are called in Turkey and Cyprus(babuch).
In Turkey the name for the doormat men is: Ezik
which means: bruised, squashed, smashed, crushed. I think you see what I mean with this.
Its ok to agree to something that u don't want to agree to, once in a while, I sometimes (rare) agree to something just to avoid an argument with my friends, family and husband, but only if it so insignifigent that I cannot be bothered to waste my breathe on it.
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Post by thracian08 on Jun 12, 2010 16:55:40 GMT -5
i think Arsenije you're referring to the Turkish expression - papuguna basdim, meaning I stepped on your slippers. Even in a Turkish marriage the spouses are encouraged to step on each other's feet and whoever does it first is supposed to be the dominant mate!
Funny, anyways, I agree, I believe 2 people should treat each other equally. i've seen people where the male or female is stepped on, and in the end, he/she isn't happy and it ends up in divorce.
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