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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Mar 15, 2011 4:27:32 GMT -5
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Post by terroreign on Mar 18, 2011 13:01:08 GMT -5
desire post ur pix
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Post by Emperor AAdmin on Mar 18, 2011 14:05:29 GMT -5
The little one was the bully?
That boy must be delusional, it was like a fly messing with an elephant.
LOL
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Post by uz on Mar 18, 2011 14:34:29 GMT -5
That's awesome. Learning street values at a young age.
The little kid throws the first punch, get's body slammed by the bigger kid, and by the end of the video, it seems that the "battle" is over.
Everyone walks away in one piece. lol
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Mar 18, 2011 14:48:25 GMT -5
Krivo stay on topic please. Yea the bully was the skinny kid.... we call this "kasinmak" in Turkish... getting itchy... wanting a scratch. The skinny kid cudn't walk afterwards lol
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Post by uz on Mar 18, 2011 14:49:55 GMT -5
At least he was in one piece.
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Mar 18, 2011 17:47:05 GMT -5
yea just about,, didn't u see how he stood up lol
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Post by uz on Mar 18, 2011 18:38:35 GMT -5
Dazed and confused. lol
Now they have created that line, that neither will probably cross again. These are children, I doubt they would take this incident to heart.
In many ways children are alot smarter than adults. An adult in this situation (depending from where, of course), may seek vengence, returning with either a pack of people or a weapon of some sort, taking such a small incident and exploding it into a crisis.
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Mar 18, 2011 19:21:25 GMT -5
I suppose so.
I felt bad for the big kid though..
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Post by uz on Mar 18, 2011 19:32:44 GMT -5
He'll get over it. lol
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Mar 18, 2011 19:52:29 GMT -5
I showed it to my mum, she cracked up laughing...
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Post by nilofer on Mar 19, 2011 12:56:04 GMT -5
A couple of days ago they showed this clip on Danish television on some evening program. They were raising the following points: - It's bad to spread videos of kids bullying and fighting on the internet - It's bad to praise this boy as a hero for defending himself towards his bully. Because other bully victims will look at this video and feel like they need to defend themselves towards their bullies, too, and if they can't do that then they'll just feel even worse about themselves than they already do - It's bad to take matters in own hands, as a bully victim, because bullying is a social problem and should be solved by an entire community. I though it was all rubbish talk and it made me boiling angry. Because...for one, when you actually follow ^those points nothing changes with the bullying at all. The bullies don't ever suffer any real consequences because the teachers really underestimate how bad bullies and their bullying are. "Oh, they're just kids, how much harm can they really be doing?". A lot! I remember there was this gross kid in school, a boy, who would get a kick out of touching girls inappropriately when no one was looking (touching their breasts). When girls told the teachers about it they were just told he was a curious boy and they needed to keep a distance from him if they didn't like the "attention". Seriously. At some point this guy started on me...or tried; I kicked him to the ground and told him I'd kill him if he ever as much as looked at me again . Anyway, second of all, there's nothing wrong at all in being able to defend yourself! That's what you're supposed to be able to do! I can't believe anyone would actually tell people to be weak and rely on others to take care of their problems for them. That's not how real life works, no one takes care of your problems! So why the hell would you teach your kid that kind of nonsense?!
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Mar 19, 2011 15:13:06 GMT -5
Well, I was never bullied at school. However when a few new kids came to the class, others tried to bully them, they were obviously too shy/afraid to tell the teacher or stand up for themselves, I warned the bullies to stop, when they didn't I inflicted the same behavior as they had demonstrated to the new kid. One girl was a refugee from Somala, she was so quiet, didn't bother anyone, this English girl just walked up to her in the corridor, spat in her face and pushed her down the stairs. The poor thing didn't even cry, she just got up and walked off... really shocked and dazed. I calmly walked over to the bully, smiled, spat in her face and punched her down the stairs, walked to the bottom where she was laying on the floor and kicked her a few times he never ever touched that girl again, however the girl that was bullied followed me around like a shadow, for ages... that was annoying lol.
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Post by nilofer on Mar 20, 2011 6:48:35 GMT -5
I was bullied in the first couple of years - exactly because I was stupid and did what was recommended: I didn't fight back, I told teachers about it, blabla. My dad then found out what was going on and he basically taught me how to throw good punches ;D. It felt really good to punch the people who bothered me, and they quickly started leaving me alone . So yeah, I definitely believe that violence is the answer sometimes . As bad as it sounds, some people are so retarded and messed up in their heads that they only get things through having their noses broken . What can you do? Also, I never got why there's so much focus on the reasoning behind bullies' behaviour. A lot of times, they're refererred to as the real victims because it's their "personal issues" that drive them to torment others. It makes me sick. I don't think bully victims really care about bullies' bad self-esteem and alcoholic parents. They care about their psycho behaviour, the emotional aspect of it is of a psychologist's concern.
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Post by uz on Mar 20, 2011 15:00:35 GMT -5
Sometimes a punch across the face is the only language some understand.
Don't give people credit when it's not due; Talking sense into someone. Most people don't know how to put 2 constructive sentences together, never mind discussing a ceasefire.
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