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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Apr 5, 2008 8:51:18 GMT -5
Why are they so f.cking over sensitive? I mean now I understand some of the forumers here, getting all uptight n trying to be smart when u are just joking with them!! Is this just a Turkish phenomenon or is it the same all over the med n balkans? Also whats up with people always thinking they know best and ready to share there advise with u?!! How comes people just cost they are older than you think they are smarter than you? How comes you have to refer to older people or your managers as Siz instead of sen? wtf is that about?!!! why is that sh.it happening... people are so fu.cking closed up i there tiny worlds over here... does anyone have answers?
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Post by jerryspringer on Apr 5, 2008 9:13:26 GMT -5
Most likely, people treat you like a little girl because that's what you are.
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Apr 5, 2008 9:47:37 GMT -5
Really? I guess thats why u and me are so alike Anyway.. Example for u guys: Last week I got really really ill, Turns out I had a Bad throat infection, kidney infection, plus I had the flu, lol so I was totally f.cked, anyway so I went to the hospital they gave me antibiotics, pain killers etc and advised me I have to rest 5 days minimum. Thing is I really worked overtime the few weeks previous to that, took on few too many projects it seems lack of food and sleep, combined with overtime working.. (Im a perfectionist I have to make sure all my projects have the edge always) So I call my boss and tell her look im ill etc etc.. need time off so she says Oh ok 2 days later come to my house!!! makes me soup and food LOL, not that I dont appreciate it..n all,, but come on stay out of my personal life u know! anyway she then calls her bf who is some bigwig doctor, who tells me that I also need to rest and sh.it but that it aint so bad etc . (f.ck him at one point I was hallucinating lol) anyway, the next morning she calls to ask if im coming into work, ı said NO! then the next day she calls again and says another of my doctor friend wants to check you, ı said thanks but I decide who checks me, told her which hospital I went to (f**king expensive motherf.cker) she starts telling which hospital I should go to, what I should eat and that I should do etc.... anyway so I tell her if she calls me again before Tuesday (5days) Im leaving work she shuts her big gob. (thing is she knows I worked too much due to my own projects apart from work!) Thats an example of them thinking they know best!!
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Post by yiannisss on Apr 5, 2008 12:24:00 GMT -5
Anittas was right. People treat you like a little girl.
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Apr 5, 2008 13:11:20 GMT -5
Never treated like that in london
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Post by yiannisss on Apr 5, 2008 13:34:26 GMT -5
I am almost certain that you partially like it.
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Apr 5, 2008 15:20:51 GMT -5
dude If I lıked that ı would live with my parents lol
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Post by yiannisss on Apr 5, 2008 17:44:59 GMT -5
Strange. I thought that most women partially love it (because it shows caring) and partially hate it (because it can limit their freedoms). Now, about that kind of culture. The part where the boss came at your house, etc. etc., was unknown to me. But as a general thing that over-sensitivity I think it is shared in Greece as well, especially at the country side. In other countries I guess too. And I think that it is not weird that you had not seen it at the UK, because it is probably a Southern European or maybe an Eastern thing.
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Apr 6, 2008 18:51:59 GMT -5
Nah I didn't grow up to be babied, Im spoilt as hell, but never to the point where people smother me. Im too independent for people to get so involved!! I had a throat infection not cancer (god forbid)
Anyhow this is really gona take some getting used to!
I hate it wherever it is coming from. Especially my boss coming to my house!! piss off u know! I have a life outside of work!
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Post by depletedreasons on Apr 7, 2008 8:02:29 GMT -5
Really? I guess thats why u and me are so alike Anyway.. Example for u guys: Last week I got really really ill, Turns out I had a Bad throat infection, kidney infection, plus I had the flu, lol so I was totally f.cked, anyway so I went to the hospital they gave me antibiotics, pain killers etc and advised me I have to rest 5 days minimum. Thing is I really worked overtime the few weeks previous to that, took on few too many projects it seems lack of food and sleep, combined with overtime working.. (Im a perfectionist I have to make sure all my projects have the edge always) So I call my boss and tell her look im ill etc etc.. need time off so she says Oh ok 2 days later come to my house!!! makes me soup and food LOL, not that I dont appreciate it..n all,, but come on stay out of my personal life u know! anyway she then calls her bf who is some bigwig doctor, who tells me that I also need to rest and sh.it but that it aint so bad etc . (f.ck him at one point I was hallucinating lol) anyway, the next morning she calls to ask if im coming into work, ı said NO! then the next day she calls again and says another of my doctor friend wants to check you, ı said thanks but I decide who checks me, told her which hospital I went to (f**king expensive motherf.cker) she starts telling which hospital I should go to, what I should eat and that I should do etc.... anyway so I tell her if she calls me again before Tuesday (5days) Im leaving work she shuts her big gob. (thing is she knows I worked too much due to my own projects apart from work!) Thats an example of them thinking they know best!! I must admit that you had a very strange boss. You still work there?
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Apr 7, 2008 16:17:24 GMT -5
yeap.. moneys good hours r low... n ı just do what ı want:)
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Post by depletedreasons on Apr 8, 2008 1:52:48 GMT -5
yeap.. moneys good hours r low... n ı just do what ı want:) Fair enough..
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Kanaris
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Post by Kanaris on Apr 8, 2008 12:47:26 GMT -5
She was only trying to help you .... give her a break... You have that London mindset and living in Ankara...what did you expect...?
You have to adjust your priorities and your sensitivities.
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Post by julius on Apr 8, 2008 13:03:51 GMT -5
I agree with the old man here.
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Apr 8, 2008 14:56:06 GMT -5
dude the people in Ankara are known to be cold, compared to the rest of Turkey....
grrr
anyhow .. I dont care its wierd!
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Kanaris
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This just in>>>> Nobody gives a crap!
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Post by Kanaris on Apr 8, 2008 18:21:11 GMT -5
I agree with the old man here.
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Post by julius on Apr 9, 2008 3:39:24 GMT -5
I didnt mention any names..... ;D ;D
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Post by hellboy87 on Apr 10, 2008 21:26:24 GMT -5
canaris is not old
dy,how much money do you make???
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Post by leandros nikon on Apr 16, 2008 9:35:12 GMT -5
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