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Post by nilofer on Mar 20, 2011 7:20:54 GMT -5
That was the part that bothered me the most. I mean where is the choice? Its the same situation that u are in, but as the opposite end Exactly. That's what it's all about: not having a choice. Whether it's regarding a natural birth or a C-section... This thing with saving one's image happens a lot in our culture, too. I think this is a pretty Middle Eastern way of thinking and being . It's quite amusing sometimes, but other times you seriously think, "what the hell...? Why are you doing this just to give people "the right" impression?". It must be really tirering to constantly worry about what people will think... Yup...didn't help . Thank you very much! 3-4 sets of twins in your family? Mashallah! Bless them! . How old are they, are they all still toddlers? I believe I'm the first in my family to have twins ;D. So there's a lot of hype over it...it's kind of annoying .
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Mar 20, 2011 21:45:29 GMT -5
I totally agree, I hated the whole "what will people say" attitude they have in Turkey. Im so glad im out of that environment, its very refreshing to be back in the UK where everyone minds their own bloody business.
The twins ages vary... I have some old uncles who are twins, My great grandmother was a twin, I have twin cousins in their 20's and some 1 year old twin cousins... heheh
You have to be careful with twins they are super cute, but super smart too, i swear they both learn things together and share them all the time so they are quicker then average kids to be able to fool adults.
Its nuts, but so much fun...
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Post by nilofer on Mar 21, 2011 5:15:49 GMT -5
Oh, cool! . Are any of them identical twins? lol, Yeah, I can only imagine what a big challenge the twins will be...but I really look forward to it .
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Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Mar 21, 2011 10:16:43 GMT -5
Yea, they are all identical, the only thing is, my cousins in their 20's were exactly the same as one another, nobody could tell them apart even their mum. Once they hit 16 years old they started changing, one looks more like her mum now and the other her dad. You can still see they are twins, but the identicalness has gone... Twins aren't that challenging, since they soothe each other, keep each other company, once u stop breast feeding, (if u do that) they are pretty good to go...
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