Now they have created that line, that neither will probably cross again. These are children, I doubt they would take this incident to heart.
In many ways children are alot smarter than adults. An adult in this situation (depending from where, of course), may seek vengence, returning with either a pack of people or a weapon of some sort, taking such a small incident and exploding it into a crisis.
A couple of days ago they showed this clip on Danish television on some evening program. They were raising the following points:
- It's bad to spread videos of kids bullying and fighting on the internet
- It's bad to praise this boy as a hero for defending himself towards his bully. Because other bully victims will look at this video and feel like they need to defend themselves towards their bullies, too, and if they can't do that then they'll just feel even worse about themselves than they already do
- It's bad to take matters in own hands, as a bully victim, because bullying is a social problem and should be solved by an entire community.
I though it was all rubbish talk and it made me boiling angry. Because...for one, when you actually follow ^those points nothing changes with the bullying at all. The bullies don't ever suffer any real consequences because the teachers really underestimate how bad bullies and their bullying are. "Oh, they're just kids, how much harm can they really be doing?". A lot! I remember there was this gross kid in school, a boy, who would get a kick out of touching girls inappropriately when no one was looking (touching their breasts). When girls told the teachers about it they were just told he was a curious boy and they needed to keep a distance from him if they didn't like the "attention". Seriously. At some point this guy started on me...or tried; I kicked him to the ground and told him I'd kill him if he ever as much as looked at me again .
Anyway, second of all, there's nothing wrong at all in being able to defend yourself! That's what you're supposed to be able to do! I can't believe anyone would actually tell people to be weak and rely on others to take care of their problems for them. That's not how real life works, no one takes care of your problems! So why the hell would you teach your kid that kind of nonsense?!
Post by Dèsîŗĕ Yèarning on Mar 19, 2011 15:13:06 GMT -5
Well, I was never bullied at school. However when a few new kids came to the class, others tried to bully them, they were obviously too shy/afraid to tell the teacher or stand up for themselves, I warned the bullies to stop, when they didn't I inflicted the same behavior as they had demonstrated to the new kid.
One girl was a refugee from Somala, she was so quiet, didn't bother anyone, this English girl just walked up to her in the corridor, spat in her face and pushed her down the stairs. The poor thing didn't even cry, she just got up and walked off... really shocked and dazed. I calmly walked over to the bully, smiled, spat in her face and punched her down the stairs, walked to the bottom where she was laying on the floor and kicked her a few times
he never ever touched that girl again, however the girl that was bullied followed me around like a shadow, for ages... that was annoying lol.
I was bullied in the first couple of years - exactly because I was stupid and did what was recommended: I didn't fight back, I told teachers about it, blabla. My dad then found out what was going on and he basically taught me how to throw good punches ;D. It felt really good to punch the people who bothered me, and they quickly started leaving me alone . So yeah, I definitely believe that violence is the answer sometimes . As bad as it sounds, some people are so retarded and messed up in their heads that they only get things through having their noses broken . What can you do?
Also, I never got why there's so much focus on the reasoning behind bullies' behaviour. A lot of times, they're refererred to as the real victims because it's their "personal issues" that drive them to torment others. It makes me sick. I don't think bully victims really care about bullies' bad self-esteem and alcoholic parents. They care about their psycho behaviour, the emotional aspect of it is of a psychologist's concern.
rex362: Goal ⚽ ⚽ ⚽ ⚽ 🇦🇱Shaqiri - 🇷🇸 Serbia 3-2
Dec 3, 2022 14:51:32 GMT -5
Rusyn: lmao too bad that Shaqiri guy have nothing to do with Albania. he lives in Switzerland and his origin is from Kosovar Albanians, Kosovo is part of Serbia, so yeah Swiss Albo-Serb beaten ordinary Serbs
Dec 3, 2022 16:28:12 GMT -5
Emperor AAdmin: Sorry Rexxy, that is just a win for Swiss. Plain and simple. Where certain players origins are from ... who cares... it was all for swiss colors my friend...I am afraid noone is connecting Albanians to this game in any shape or form hahahaha
Dec 4, 2022 20:42:53 GMT -5
Rusyn: Who knows, maybe they think Switzerland is part of Albania also
Dec 5, 2022 0:52:38 GMT -5
rex362: oh the politics of football.......ok then ....dont let me find you as being hypocrites if I find/see any post of you highlighting any serbian players on any other countries sport teams
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rex362: fricken hooligans
Dec 5, 2022 17:15:17 GMT -5